WOMAN2WOMAN

One day, I woke up realizing that I was overworked, exhausted, and alone. When I sat out to be a woman entrepreneur and leader I had no idea how much my life would change. Some of the changes were for the better but some weren't.

I noticed that I'd become extremely obsessed with my business goals and lost track of everything else. I spent hours, weeks, and literally years behind my computer. I rarely went out in public, therefore, I wasn't getting dressed up anymore.

I became extremely, cutthroat, and overall insensitive to a lot of things going on around me. Ultimately, I was focused on my work and nothing else. If anyone or anything got in the way of my objective they were cut down immediately.

I was losing my feminity, and I was losing it quickly. 

I was no longer the nurturer, I had become the provider. I honestly felt that, after my divorce, it was my responsibility to be the full provider for my family. I took on the role of a man instead of leveling up with my feminine energy to actually have a man, a business, and a family structure in which I could operate in my natural role.

Just because you're building a business and making money doesn't mean you have to be alone.

If you lose yourself in your business, you might discover, as I did, that you're taking on a masculine role. If that's what you want then no need to continue reading. However, if you want to earn big while embracing your feminine energy then this is the blog for you.

Because what's the point of having it all but not having anyone to share it with. It's easy to get caught up in the idea that you have to reach your business goals before mingling with a man or having a social life. I promise that was my approach for so many years. I looked up to discover that 6 years had passed like the wind and I was still single and unfulfilled business-wise.

I had made a lot of progress in my business, but I definitely wasn't where I had imagined myself being.  Then I remembered, I am a woman. I do not have to do this on my own. I can have a fulfilling relationship with a partner who has already achieved what I'm trying to achieve and continue building my business without having to step out of my feminine role.


I discovered that I can take time to nurture my family and those around me without losing my position as an entrepreneur.

So I made some changes...  

The first thing I did was, I took a good honest look in the mirror. The stress of "doing it all on my own" had most certainly taken its toll on me. Therefore, I ordered some products that could help me get my groove back. I ordered some collagen  (helps my skin produce new cells and look youthful), biotin ( helps my hair and nails grow thicker, fuller, and longer), vitamins (gives me crazy energy and focus, so I can be fun to be around), Thyroid support (helps me to reset my immune system, have more energy, and spike up my metabolism to shed those extra pounds), and oils ( I use natural oils on my hair and skin because it absorbs quickly and helps everything look soo shiny and smooth)

(  Ladies, I'll put everything I'm using at the bottom of this post) However, I wanted my skin, energy, and focus to be on point so I made the investment in myself to put my best foot forward. (I'm working from the inside out, but I'd love some makeup tips; if you have a makeup channel throw it in the comments section, and I'll check it out).

Anywhoo . . .

I started going to bed early, instead of sitting at the computer all night. I started loving on my son more and being, more of, the mom he needed me to be rather than, only, the provider I thought I had to be.  I began enjoying a glass of wine with my friends and having conversations that remind me of my feminity.

Ladies, I even started blogging on more feminine topics. Also, because I love to listen to podcasts at night, I started trading my hardcore business audios for feminine mastery subjects. I know we live in a time where women want to be equal to men but "to each, it's own" I actually like being pampered and taken care of by a man even though I know I can earn a living on my own terms.

Therefore . . .

I started conversating with some, well established, men because I already know that, at this point, in my life, I'm not interested in anyone who can't add to my life, spiritually, financially, mentally, and yes ladies sexually. He got to come with more than his body; thank you:)

(Read my article on Date Men Who Compliment Your Lifestyle & Business Goals)

So for the first time in years, I've decided to pay attention to what I do have at my disposal to work smarter and not harder. To my advantage, I am a woman and I can use my feminine energy to attract an established male partner who can compliment my lifestyle and business goals if I choose to.

Woman2Woman . . .

It's easy to forget our power when we make a decision to do everything ourselves. I've heard and, even, made a lot of the excuses women make today.

Some of those excuses include but aren't limited to, I can't trust a man; it's hard to find a good man; I don't want any help from anybody; I can make my own money; I'm not a gold digger, and the list goes on.

This list of excuses are senseless because no one is asking you to trust men but only to allow them to operate in their role as you operate in yours. Remember, you're not a needy chick, you can take care of yourself, but you don't have to and choose not to if there is an opportunity to share that role with someone who is responsible in that way.

It's often hard to find a good man  "in the class of men" that you're looking in. Get clarity on your business and lifestyle goals; only date men that can complement and add to you. Don't be generous in this area because, after all, it's your life, and you shouldn't leave it in the hands of someone who doesn't value you and isn't prepared to take care of you. You're there to help support his plans as he supports yours but you shouldn't be providing for his living and carrying, even, more weight than you were as a single person.

You don't have to have help from anyone but you're going to make life extremely hard for yourself. "Trust me I know." Glad I woke up before it was too late. This independent stuff "done" led many women to the grave early because it's forcing them to operate outside of their natural role which leads to stress, anxiety, and feeling overwhelmed.

It's great that you can earn your own money, but you don't have to spend all of the money you earn if someone is willing to love you and lighten your load. People who have money marry other people who are wealthy all the time. Women who don't have any money marry men who have money all the time too...

It's clear that you're not a gold digger because you're an amazing entrepreneur woman, but there is strength in being able to allow someone to tend to your needs despite the fact that you could do it on your own. That takes some humility and willingness to be feminine.

As a woman entrepreneur and leader, you don't have to wait until you have it all together to have it all. You can be feminine and have so much more. Why struggle, just to say I did it by myself? I discovered that trying to do it all alone ages you; it stresses you out and it leaves you by yourself.

This is going to be an interesting blog. I'm excited about it as I explore the power of the feminine woman. We can build 6 & 7 figure businesses from the comfort of our own homes without being stressed in the process.

( I'll show you how to start a profitable blog below, so you can earn money from your laptop and avoid leaving your home to earn $$$. When you can make money from home, you already feel more feminine because you don't have to be out there in the hustle and bustle of the workday. Don't try to do all this complicated stuff like I did, in the beginning, lol. Just start a simple blog, drive traffic to it, and suggest products that earn you commissions. Just click on "The Blog Profits" course image at the bottom of this post to get started.)

Some will not agree with my new approach to women building businesses with less stress, but the great thing about my approach is that I'm an educated "woman entrepreneur"  who is choosing to be feminine rather than masculine in my approach to business building and life. Therefore, I am proof that it can be done.  At the end of the day, I've done things the hard masculine way, in the past, and I promise you that this way is much more pleasant :)

Don't trade your feminine energy for success because you truly can have them both.

To Your Success...
~TDC~

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