Why Being Feminine Doesn't Mean You're Powerless

<h1>We live in a world where femininity is easily confused with weakness. Being mothers, lovers, and nurtures are being replaced with a more masculine, "I can do it all" woman. Many women entrepreneurs and leaders have traded their feminine roles for their business roles and it's taking a toll on our society.<h1>

<h2>When we can tend to our children, love our husbands, and nurture our environment without losing our power as women. We can embrace our feminity and build online businesses at the same time. In fact, being an entrepreneur is one way to embrace our femininity! Because we can build businesses around our lifestyles instead of forcing our lifestyles to fit around our businesses.<h2>

Imagine blogging about a new recipe while your little one is attached. Of course, you wouldn't get close to a flame with the baby. Yet, throwing a simple dinner into the crockpot while your audience is watching you enjoy the best of both worlds is a great way to earn $$$ and nurture at the same time.

You can operate in your feminine energy and build a business, it's all about the subjects you choose to build your business around and how you choose to build it. It's okay to write about girly stuff if you want too because you're a female. As a matter of fact, it feels more natural anyway.

These ideas aren't meant to imply that you can't be an educated career woman in any field of expertise and still operate in your feminine energy, but it's all about what you truly want and what that actually looks like to you.

Yet, Remember That . . .  

<h3>This blog is more for women who want to digress in their masculinity and operate more in their feminity. It's for the educated businesswoman who desires to be fierce in strategy but soft in her approach. It's for the woman who has the strength of a football player but exhibits it with the elegance of a ballerina.<h3>

Take Meghan Markle as an example. Many people know her as a hardcore feminist but that's not what you see when you look at her. She is soft, pretty, feminine, and elegant. She talks about things that women can relate too. Now she is becoming a mother and she looks nothing like a hardcore woman who doesn't need a man and can do it all herself.

Meghan is an educated, powerful, and capable woman. Yet, she knows how to handle business as she operates in her feminine role. She isn't "so strong" that she doesn't need a man. She doesn't go around flexing her degrees and accomplishments to prove her strength. In fact, if we didn't know her as an actress or through her marriage to a royal, we wouldn't know about her education among other things because of how she carries herself.

Before her marriage, if she wasn't on set, you could find Meghan Markle out in the fields of humanitarian work nurturing orphans and such. Yes, she was classified as a feminist but she clearly stays in her lane of feminity in her everyday life.  She is a perfect example of strength displayed with grace, and it's simply beautiful.

Here's What I've Learned . . . 

Your accomplishments can't embrace you when the nights are cold and when the world is brutal. When you operate in your feminine role, you attract a masculine man who can cover, protect, and cherish you. When you operate in your masculine role, you attract a feminine man who is looking for you to be strong for him. He needs protection and coverage and you're attracting him right into your life because you've got everything covered.

This Really Isn't The Post For That Lesson . . .

However, don't live your whole life without ever experiencing what it's like to be a woman . . . to be feminine, to love, to nurture, to be soft, to be caring and to be cared for by a man. I'm not talking about just any man, but I'm talking about a good man.  You deserve one!

Ok Back To The Point . . . 

We are women. We can choose to build feminine businesses that support our feminine energy. Ladies, it's essential that we remember when we pick up masculine tasks it robs us of our feminine energy.

Again, this post isn't for those women who want to be manly or have masculine dreams. Go do you. However, I'm telling you from experience, the minute I began to operate in my lane, life began to make so much, more, sense to me.

I know that some of you ladies are reading this post thinking, I got to raise these kids. These men aren't any help. There aren't any good men. I don't have time to be blogging about fluff stuff because I've got two jobs.

I'm here to tell you that you can turn this thing around girlfriend. Before I realized that I was operating in such masculine energy and that it repelled my masculine help, I was overwhelmed and doing everything by myself. Yes, I was raising my minor son alone too.

However, something amazing happened when I let down my pride and told my child's father that I needed him. When I told him that I couldn't raise his son by myself and when I admitted that the task was putting too much strain on me as a woman, he stepped up to the plate. Instead of me treating him nasty and complaining about what he didn't do, I made a decision to swallow my pride and ask for help to find out what he could do. After all, I laid down with him; right?

Yes, I cried. I admitted that I couldn't provide the best life for our son by myself. I stopped calling everybody else and called his dad. I realized that whether I liked it or not... .that was the person that I decided to have a kid with, and I needed his help.

Later, I made the decision to relocate to a new city closer to my son's dad so we could share the responsibility of the child that we created.  It was a big and difficult choice, but It's one of the best choices I've made in a long time. Although we are divorced, I am finally getting the help that I wanted and desperately needed for our child.

Sometimes, as single moms, it's easy to assume that the man will not help you. You might feel like he can't do it because he isn't smart enough. Well, you were equally smart when you laid down. It's a harsh reality, but it's the truth. The child is here, tell that man that you need him! You need his help! Think about this, if you were to pass away, in most cases, he would get first dibs at custody because it's his child. At that point, he would have to be smart enough; right? In all honesty, in most cases, he is just as capable of you, and he wouldn't do anything to harm is own DNA.

Seems So Hard To Get Back On Topic . . .

Yet, someone needs to hear this message. Take time and think about why your life. Is it over masculine? If so, what changes do you need to make to operate in your feminine energy? If you're working 2 jobs, starting a profitable blog could be exactly what you need. If you find something that is refreshing and feminine to blog about, you could earn $$$ and have a release from everything else you've got going on.

I had no idea how much I like looking at purses and shoes even if it's putting together looks for my blogs. Heck, I shop on my own blogs too lol. To wrap this crazy and unfocused post up, I just want to say that the more you find ways to operate within your feminine energy the more your lifestyle will attract the changes to assist the feminine you.

Start your "more" feminine journey with a blog that generates $$$ in a way that compliments your lifestyle goals.

To Your Success. . . 

~TDC~

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