Why Entrepreneurial Women In Leadership Should Only Date Men Who Compliment Their Lifestyle & Business Goals

So, ladies, this is the honest and brutal truth, you should only date men who compliment your lifestyle and business goals. You cannot base your relationship decisions on how nice someone is or how good they look. You've got to think deeper about who you're choosing to spend the rest of your life with. If done correctly, the dating process can be one of the most cut-throat brutal processes you'll ever go through in your life.

Therefore, You Must Have Clarity . . . 

Girlfriend, you've got to be clear on who you are, what you want out of life, and what your goals are before thinking of dating someone else. You need to know your personality type and have an understanding of your strengths and weaknesses. You should know what makes you tick, what your pet peeves are, and what your deal breakers are too.

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Before dating, you should have a strong grip on your professional goals, your income goals, and the systems that help you achieve them. You should have a solid personal economic structure.

When you have a strong grasp on your personal, physical, spiritual, and financial self then you attract like-minded individuals to yourself. If you're a professional woman, then you will discover that you're invited to professional events in which professional men are present. You may even have to travel for a seminar or to give a presentation where you'll meet people who have similar goals and ambitions.

Because You Are A Feminine And Professional  Woman, You Could Date-Up. . .  
Entrepreneurial and professional women in leadership should have dating standards. That means you're looking for stable minded men who are ambitious and have something to show for it. A man who has not stabilized his personal, physical, spiritual, and financial self should not be dating. If he is then he is looking for you to carry the weight of his "lack of diligence" and no woman should take on that responsibility.

If he does not have himself together then it's not your job to fix his life. He should care for his future partner enough to get himself together before trying to carry the masculine role in a relationship. Do not get snared into a trap of the "fixer-upper" because this is not your role. Let him fix himself and present to you a whole man who is ready to be a husband and life partner. If he can't handle his own life and personal affairs, how can he handle the added responsibility of a relationship?

Date men who, in most cases, have achieved more than you. Lean towards men who have clarity about his life and his economic dealings. Do not settle because remember, you have worked hard to become the professional woman that you are so don't throw that away on someone who hasn't put forth the same or greater effort towards their life as you.

Employers Tend To Be More Selective When Hiring Employees Than Women Are When It Comes To The Men They Date.

It's true! Think about the hiring process; employers put a lot of time and effort into ensuring that they are hiring the right employee for the task at hand. Employers are clear about the job that they need to be done, and they are, absolutely, certain about the kind of person that they need to for the job.

That is why employers make you fill out an application. They interview you to ensure you have the right credentials and expertise to perform the required task. If they are looking for a chef then a cosmetology certification will not work and vice versa.

You need to take the same approach when looking for someone to fulfill the partnership role in your life. That is why it is critical that you have clarity about what you want and what you're willing to do the work to find the right person for the job.

Do not just hire anybody, then wonder why you are having so many problems. Again, what are your standards; what are your deal-breakers; what are you looking for? If you're on dating apps then be sure to list these things so that you can repeal the guys you don't want approaching you and attract the ones that you do. Also, only connect with those whose profiles fit what you are looking for, then do the work to ensure that their credentials are real. Don't be nice; be honest. You have to live with the choices that you make.

So, ladies, take time to get clear on who you are and what you want out of your life. Make an honest assessment about where you are in your life first, then date men who can match or exceed your level of lifestyle and business goals.

To Your Success. . . 

~TDC~

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